Divorce and Your Home Q&A

Information provided by Brett Leschinsky, Mortgage Loan Officer, Venture Bank.

Whether you have many questions or don’t know what questions you should be asking about your home during your divorce, you are not alone! We are here to provide the information you need to make informed decisions about your home.

CAN I BUY A NEW HOUSE BEFORE I GET DIVORCED?

Possibly, but there are a few things to be aware of. Firstyou would have to qualify with the full debt for your current home since there is no divorce decree assigning ownership of that debt. Second, your spouse would have a marital interest to your new property because you are still married. Once the divorce is final, you would need your ex-spouse to sign a Quit Claim Deed granting you their interest in your new property. Buying a new home before the divorce is finalized is not typically advised because the financial outcome you expect may not be the final result.

CAN I USE SPOUSAL MAINTENANCE AND/OR CHILD SUPPORT AS QUALIFYING INCOME TO BUY A HOUSE? 

Yes, however it must have been received consistently for certain amount of time (depending on which loan type you are using, FHA or conventional) and it must also be documented to continue for a minimum of 3 years after purchasing the house.

CAN I KEEP THE HOUSE?

This is definitely a question for your attorney. They can Q help you understand the factors in determining this. But, in general, the spouse who can afford to keep making the mortgage payments after the divorce is the one who retains the home. If neither can afford it, the house is typically sold. If there are children involved and keeping them in the home is a priority, spousal maintenance can be provided to the spouse staying in the home, depending on incomes of courseSometimes it’s obvious what needs to be done with the house, but many times it’s not. lf your household income is going down and your expenses are going up (spousal maintenance, child support, paying for your own utilities, etc.) does it really make financial sense to stay in the house? It’s important that you be diligent in understanding what your income and debts will be after the divorce.

HOW IS THE EQUITY IN OUR HOME HANDLED IF WE ARE BOTH ENTITLED TO A SHARE OF IT?

If home equity needs to be borrowed from to pay off some or all of the marital obligation, there are 2 ways to do it. You can refinance your first mortgage and take cash out so you have a new, larger 1st mortgage, Or, you can obtain a new 2nd mortgage for the amount you need. There are many factors that go into which of these two options is the best for your situation so you will want to work with a trusted mortgage professional. What the value of your house is, what your credit score is, what percentage of your home’s value lenders will lend up to, etc are all factors in this discussion. Typically when taking cash out on a refinance of a 1st mortgage, there’s about a quarter percent hit to the interest rate. However, ifthe proper wording is entered into your divorce decree, this hit can be avoided. Contact me to discuss this further if this is your scenario.

MY SPOUSE IS KEEPING THE HOUSE … HOW CAN I GET MY NAME OFF THAT LOAN?

There are 3 possible ways to get your name off a loan

  1. Qualifying Name Delete Assumption This process keeps the existing loan terms in place and, assuming your spouse qualifies for the payments on their own, can remove your name from the loan.
  2. Refinance the house into your spouse’s name only.
  3. Sell the house.

A common misconception is that a Quit Claim Deed can eliminate your responsibility to pay the loan back. It does not. A Quit Claim Deed only gives your ownership interest in the property to your ex-spouse ... your responsibility to the bank remains until your name is removed from the mortgage loan through one of the 3 ways listed above.

CAN I STILL PURCHASE A HOME EVEN IF I CAN’T GET MY NAME OFF OF THE OLD LOAN?

lf the right verbiage is written into the divorce decree, it is possible to qualify to purchase a new home without using the mortgage debt of the old loan. However, it is always preferred to remove your name from the old loan whenever possible. Mainly because if your ex-spouse misses any payments to the mortgage your name is still on, your credit will be affected negatively.

WHY DO I NEED A MORTGAGE PROFESSIONAL WHO SPECIALIZES IN DIVORCE TRANSACTIONS?

Mortgage transactions surrounding divorce are different. Many of the underwriting guidelines are different. Very few Mortgage Loan Officers know and understand these differences because they just don’t come across them enough. If you or anyone you know is going through a divorce and owns a home, they should take 15 minutes and talk to a Divorce Mortgage Specialist as early in the divorce process as possible. We can provide you with a free financial consultation and mortgage strategy review so that you have the answers and information you need to make good decisions.


Brett Leschinsky

Brett Leschinsky

ABOUT BRETT LESCHINSKY

Brett has been a respected Mortgage Professional since 2002 and he specializes in home mortgage transactions surrounding a divorce, such as how to remove a name from a current loan and determining if and when you can buy another home

Brett has been a featured guest on WCCO’s Real Estate Radio Hour to discuss common mistakes divorcing couples make with their home mortgage during the divorce. He haalso spoken at Family Law Bar Association meetings to provide CE credits for divorce attorneys.

There are things that are critical to have in the divorce decree, so call him at the beginning of your divorce to make sure these important items are addressed before thdecree is finalized.  Contact Brett Leschinsky, Mortgage Loan Officer  NMLS #334641  Phone: 612.590. 7896  Email: bleschinsky@venturebankonline.com

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