Avoid Becoming THAT Widow:

Widowhood can present significant financial challenges, especially for women over 50 who may suddenly find themselves managing finances alone. The loss of a spouse often means a reduction in income, pension benefits, and changes social security, compounded by a lack of confidence and financial literacy. However, there are proactive steps women can take to avoid these pitfalls and ensure financial stability.

Soon after I was married, my father-in-law passed away from liver cancer. As a financial advisor, my mother-in-law turned to me for help. We discovered that he had chosen a life-only pension and only had accidental death life insurance. At 62, she was devastated to find out the life insurance money and pension money she was counting on as he went through his cancer battle were worthless. This personal experience highlighted the importance of understanding and planning for financial contingencies, particularly in the face of serious illness and loss. This article offers practical advice for women to prevent and overcome these challenges.

1. Gain Financial Literacy Early

One of the most effective ways to avoid financial difficulties is to build financial literacy before widowhood. Women should take an active role in their household finances and educate themselves about financial matters.

Actions to Take:

• Attend Financial Workshops: Look for local workshops or online courses that cover budgeting, investing, and retirement planning.
• Read Financial Books and Articles: Regularly read books, articles, and blogs on personal finance to stay informed.  Early in my career I was introduced to the book Smart Women Finish Rich by David Boch. It’s a great read and not to technical to get you started.
• Consult with a Financial Advisor: Periodically meet with a financial advisor to review your financial situation and plan for the future.  Choose an advisor you feel comfortable asking questions.  A common issue I hear from my female clients and prospects is that their advisor made them feel like their questions were stupid.  Interview a few advisors to find a good fit.

2. Understand and Evaluate Insurance Policies

It’s crucial to understand the different types of insurance policies and ensure that you have adequate coverage. The tragic example of my mother in-law discovering that her husband’s life-only pension and accidental death life insurance were insufficient, highlights the importance of reviewing and updating insurance policies.

Actions to Take:

• Review Life Insurance Policies: Ensure that life insurance policies provide sufficient coverage. Consider term life insurance and whole or universal life insurance based on your needs.
• Evaluate Pension Options: If your spouse is eligible for a pension, understand the different payout options, such as joint and survivor benefits, which can provide ongoing income to the surviving spouse.
• Consider Disability and Long-Term Care Insurance: These can provide financial support in case of severe illness or disability.

3. Build a Robust Emergency Fund

Having an emergency fund is essential for financial security, particularly in the face of unexpected events like the death of a spouse.

Actions to Take:

• Save Regularly: Aim to save at least three to six months’ worth of living expenses in an easily accessible account. Review these accounts regularly to make sure they are earning a good interest rate. I suggest having money in a traditional savings at a bank with one to two months’ worth of living expenses and pair that with a high yield savings account that offers higher interest rates.
• Automate Savings: Set up automatic transfers to your emergency fund to ensure consistent savings.
• Avoid Tapping into Savings: Use your emergency fund strictly for genuine emergencies.

4. Engage in Joint Financial Planning

Engage in joint financial planning with your spouse to ensure that both partners are fully informed and involved in financial decisions.

Actions to Take:

• Hold Regular Financial Meetings: Set aside time regularly to discuss finances with your spouse, including income, expenses, savings, investments, and retirement plans.
• Document Financial Information: Keep a comprehensive record of all financial accounts, insurance policies, and important documents in an accessible location.
• Create a Financial Plan: Work together to create a financial plan that outlines your short-term and long-term financial goals and strategies.

5. Plan for Retirement and Estate Management

Planning for retirement and managing your estate are critical steps to ensure financial stability in later life.

Actions to Take:

• Maximize Retirement Savings: Contribute to retirement accounts such as 401(k)s, IRAs, or other pension plans to build a substantial nest egg. Even if you are not working outside the home you may be eligible to have a spousal IRA.
• Diversify Investments: Diversify your investment portfolio to reduce risk and increase potential returns.
• Update Estate Plans: Ensure your will, trusts, and beneficiary designations are up-to-date and reflect your current wishes.
• Consider a Living Will and Power of Attorney: Establish a living will and designate a power of attorney to manage your affairs if you become incapacitated.

6. Build a Support Network

A strong support network can provide emotional and practical assistance during challenging times.

Actions to Take:

• Join Support Groups: Participate in support groups for widowed individuals or those facing similar financial challenges.
• Seek Professional Help: Engage financial advisors, accountants, and legal professionals who can offer expert guidance.
• Rely on Friends and Family: Don’t hesitate to ask trusted friends and family members for support and advice.

Conclusion

By taking proactive steps, women over 50 can avoid many of the financial challenges associated with widowhood. Building financial literacy, understanding and updating insurance policies, establishing a robust emergency fund, engaging in joint financial planning, preparing for retirement, and building a strong support network are crucial strategies. These measures not only provide financial security but also empower women to navigate their financial future with confidence and resilience.

Amy R. Holewa, a sponsor for RediscoveringU, is a financial advisor specializing in retirement, estate planning, college planning, 401k, investments, & divorce financial planning.  https://www.amyholewa.com/